tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3998318684093652223.post3359496874575496404..comments2023-07-29T17:12:39.218+02:00Comments on The N Files: The sparkleNhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04913843486874736032noreply@blogger.comBlogger2125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3998318684093652223.post-91300810753656019992010-07-10T00:42:49.599+02:002010-07-10T00:42:49.599+02:00I think that's great advice Duchess :-)!I think that's great advice Duchess :-)!Nhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04913843486874736032noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3998318684093652223.post-92195163196083315352010-07-09T23:42:37.797+02:002010-07-09T23:42:37.797+02:00Or go out of town. Sometimes I feel like men are s...Or go out of town. Sometimes I feel like men are sort of like rubber bands. Or am I getting that from one of the numerous self-help books I've read. Probably NOT a Duchess original. But I think it helps sometimes to be a little absent because often, however unintentional, I think men take for granted the dependable, reliable, always there for them women in their lives. It's sometimes nice to spring a "surprise" weekend trip on them with the girls, then go out of town for a day or two and forget to turn your phone on all weekend. See what a day or two of total 'N' silence does for jogging for the hubby's memory. Feel free to ignore that advice! :) I just know whenever I start to feel like the only one making the effort in a relationship, it's usually because I am! So I stop for a weekend. Take the weekend off from phone calls, "being there" etc and just take a little "me" break. It works like a charm every time. Cheers darling N!Jill the Duchesshttp://www.theduchessguide.comnoreply@blogger.com